Sacred Union Isn’t a Fantasy - It’s a Frequency

3 Aug

And sometimes you need therapy First…

Apparently… when your feminine energy is too divine, the man needs to go to therapy, get a mortgage, and buy a TentBox for his Porsche before he’s ready to stand next to you.

I wish I was joking.

But this is what happens when you stop dimming your light and start living in your full frequency. And, I did ask for it, becareful what you wish for, because manifestations happy all the time! Good and bad! Joyful and painful.

The truth? He didn’t ghost. He ran. Into himself. Because when the Divine Feminine walks in fully lit, he masculine either rises… or retreats to recalibrate (and this process works both ways).

And listen, I’m saying this with zero judgement, because we ALL need to do the inner work and have shit to heal from.

I want my sacred counterpart regulated, rooted, resourced, and I want (need) him emotionally mature enough to hold the fire I carry.

But let’s be clear:

My light wasn’t “too much.”

It was too real for a man still wrapped in illusions, living through his fears and ego. And I had to go off and do some more healing on parts that need to be healed to hold sacred union myself.

While He Was Ghosting, I Was Grounding.

He disappears into therapy. I dive deeper into truth. He sorts his mortgage. I trademarked my mission - literally!

He buys a TentBox - hopefully! 🤞

I didn’t pause my life waiting for sacred union.

I became the sacred union.

I married my fire.

I said yes to my soul.

I stopped orbiting other people’s potential and built an empire from my own.

Then It Started Happening.

The energetic shift was undeniable.

Two male friends reappeared after a year.
An old online connection popped up on my feed.

These weren’t lovers, they were echoes. Proof that my frequency had changed.

When a woman rises, men feel it.

They either:

Want back in
Run
Attack
Or want back under your light to remember who they are

But here’s the thing:

I don’t rescue. I don’t chase. I don’t prove.

I liberate.

I activate.

I leave a mark.

I adore men. I love how differently they’re wired. When it’s aligned, we’re yin and yang.

I work with them, ignite them. Because many people have forgotten, they too have souls, a heart and feelings.

This Is What the Divine Feminine Actually Looks Like

She triggers.

She tests.

She tempts the masculine into his truth.

If he’s ready - he rises.

If he’s not - he resists, withdraws, or projects.

That’s not your failure.

That’s your frequency doing its job.

I used to think I had to be smaller to be loved.

Now I know:

I just had to get brighter so only the right ones could see me.

And Him?

If he’s truly your sacred counterpart, he won’t stay away.

Not out of fear but because of gravity. Give it time.

You’ll know he’s ready when he returns without needing access.

Only reverence.

He’ll come not just to love you, but to protect the kingdom you’ve built in his absence.

Until then?

Sacred union isn’t a fantasy.

It’s a frequency.

And I’m living in it, with or without him.

Final Mic Drop:

He’ll find me when he finds himself.

And when he does?

He better come correct, because this divine nuclear reactor isn’t taking applications from anyone still afraid of the heat.

With Love

Elisha ❤️‍🔥

*originally written in June 2025 when I was knee deep in the Twin Flame Initiation.

Elisha May https://www.elisha-may.com