Stop Forcing Men Into Fatherhood They Never Chose
Some truths will piss people off. Here’s one:
Your soul doesn’t owe society a baby.
Not your parents. Not your lineage. Not the system.
And yet, the world still runs on an unspoken contract:
Women must be mothers to be “fulfilled.”
Men must step up as fathers - whether they chose it or not.
This conditioning is killing dreams, trapping souls, and creating generations of children born into emotional chaos.
The Lie We’re Still Living
We like to pretend we’re free. That modern life has liberated us.
But here’s the truth:
Women are still subtly shamed if they don’t have kids.
Men are still manipulated into fatherhood they never wanted.
And anyone who questions the script is labelled selfish, broken, or unlovable.
Here’s my radical stance:
Conscious creation requires soul consent.
For Women:
Biology doesn’t equal destiny.
Some of us came here to:
Lead movements.
Build legacies that aren’t made of flesh and blood.
Pour our energy into creating change, not children.
And yet society still whispers:
“Be maternal. Be desirable. Serve the man. And if you’re spiritual, stay quiet and graceful about it.”
No. Thank. You.
I am not here to fit the template. I am here to lead, to love differently, and to serve a mission bigger than the system’s plan for me.
For Men:
Let’s say it out loud:
Too many men are living lives they never chose.
I’ve spoken to men who were casually dating, then one day hear:
“I’m pregnant.”
And in an instant, everything changes. He didn’t choose it. He didn’t consent. He’s not ready. But society tells him: Step up or you’re trash.
This is not love. This is manipulation, dressed up as morality.
The Hidden Damage
Women trapped in roles they never wanted
Men living lives built on silent resentment
Children born into energetic fracture
And all because we refuse to talk about energetic and emotional consent.
Bringing life into the world is not a duty. It’s a sacred choice.
Anything less is just the system trying to keep you asleep.
The Radical Permission Slip
You do not owe your family grandchildren.
You do not owe society a legacy you don’t want.
You owe yourself honesty - radical honeesty.
If we all told the truth sooner, there would be:
Fewer children born into resentment and broken toxic dynamics.
Fewer men living lives they never chose.
More humans living fully awake and aligned.
This is how we break the cycle. This is how we build a new paradigm.
One rooted in soul alignment, radical consent, and sovereign choice.
I didn’t choose not to have children, it’s just never been right, aside from getting pregnant at 16 and 27 when I was in an emotionally abusive and unhealthy relationship (not to mention far too young in my opinion and at 27 I was knee deep in grief, depression and self-sabotage mindset). I checked in with myself and my heart and my soul said: “No, this isn’t the right container, you are not the right container for this child. Now is not the right time.” Tempting though it was! I made a conscious choice that in those moments I was unable to provide the basics that I believe a child deserves and I wasn’t willing to depend on the tax-payer to pay for it. I want to give my child a stable energetic container with a partner whose consent I fully have, filled with unconditional love.
Stay awake. Stay Sacred. Stay Sovereign.
Elisha 🔥
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