“Your Soul Doesn’t Owe the System a Baby.”
Radical Truth: When Biology Isn’t Your Path (And Why So Many Men Are Trapped Too)
What fascinates me is that even in 2022 and beyond, so many humans are still living in a mindless trance. Rich or poor, educated or not, it doesn’t matter. Awakening isn’t about circumstance. It’s about permission.
And most people are still denying their hearts. Their truth. Their knowing.
Let’s name it:
We’re still deep in a world where women are conditioned to believe motherhood is their ultimate purpose. That career success is a consolation prize. That true feminine power is either threatening or invisible.
Meanwhile, men are being manipulated into fatherhood they didn’t consent to, expected to serve a role they never signed up for, demonised if they say no, and emotionally destroyed if they say yes out of guilt.
Let’s talk about women first:
Biologically, we’re wired to procreate.
Soulfully? That’s a very different conversation.
Not every woman is meant to be a mother. Some of us came here to lead. To love differently. To create legacy and lineage through frequency, not flesh.
But society still holds the outdated template:
Be soft.
Be maternal.
Be desirable.
Serve the man.
And if you're spiritual? Be humble, graceful, and quiet about it.
No. Thank you!
I’m here to be an ambassador of the Divine Feminine. And that version of me? She doesn’t submit to expectation. She leads. And if there’s a man in my life, he doesn’t dominate me; he devotes to the mission with me.
Because this work? This movement? It requires my energy, my clarity, my full expression. And I’m not compromising that to meet someone else’s idea of success.
And now, let’s talk about the silent epidemic happening to men:
Too many men I’ve encountered have been told by someone they were casually seeing: "I’m pregnant."
Suddenly, their entire life changes. A situation they didn’t consciously choose becomes their permanent reality.
And here’s the truth:
He didn’t give consent.
He wasn’t ready.
He wasn’t asked.
But the woman assumes he must step up, provide, and perform the role of “father” without ever being consulted. And when he questions it? He’s demonised.
That’s not love.
That’s emotional manipulation rooted in conditioning.
And I say this as a woman.
If I wanted a child and the man didn’t, I would never expect him to take responsibility. Because if I didn’t have his energetic consent? It’s not his path. It’s mine.
We have to stop pretending that biology equals consent.
We have to stop punishing men for walking away from something they never agreed to.
Yes, there are irresponsible men.
Yes, some avoid accountability.
But there are also thousands carrying the burden of a life they didn’t choose because society told them they had to.
This creates a life of resentment, regret, emotional disconnection, and deep-rooted pain for both men and the children born from that fracture.
So here’s the radical truth:
Your soul doesn’t owe the system a baby.
You don’t owe your parents grandchildren.
You don’t owe your lineage a legacy of suffering.
What you do owe yourself is honesty. Radical honesty.
Whether you’re a woman questioning motherhood or a man questioning the narrative of forced fatherhood, you have a right to choose your own path.
You’re not selfish. You’re sovereign.
And if more of us told the truth sooner? We’d have fewer children raised in emotional chaos. Fewer women resentful of the roles they were groomed into. And fewer men abandoned by their own inner fire.
We need a new paradigm.
One rooted in energetic clarity, soul alignment, and radical consent.
Anything less is just the system trying to keep you asleep.
Stay awake. Stay Sacred. Stay Sovereign.
Elisha 🔥
*I wrote the original in 2022 and have recently given it a revamp
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